Huge Thank You to Sunderland Counselling Service for Building Self Belief’s Award
I was delighted to be a guest at Sunderland Counselling Services AGM on 30th November 2023 and help them celebrate their 40th anniversary. As CEO of Building Self-Belief, it was a great opportunity to see the timeline of how SCS has developed and evolved over the past 40 years. It was an invaluable lesson in how to adapt to survive in the ever-changing charity sector.
Lessons in Growth
The Sunderland Counselling Service were established in 1983, an era in the Northeast that is defined by deindustrialisation and mass unemployment. They began as a bereavement service and they have branched into many different services and approaches since then. They offer a great insight into the importance of embracing change, the need to be financially viable – all while delivering a fabulous service to an increasingly needy population.
Why Building Self-Belief?
Their remit for selecting the recipients of their 40th Anniversary Award was to select a charity from each of the Northeast areas that they serve. We are delighted to be the recipient of the award for Co Durham. We are using their award of £10,000 towards providing services to hard-to-reach communities- in this case Tow Law in Co Durham. The programmes we are delivering at Tow Law are a youth club with hot food, and a job club to support adults back to work. SCS’s Chair, Eileen Watt, told me how rewarding it was for them as a board to have the opportunity to select five charities to give a grant to and how liberating this felt to be able to help other charities in such a meaningful way.
A Generous Invite
As part of the SCS AGM programme, I was invited to speak and share information about Building Self-Belief and the work we do. Delivering such a speech is most generous offer as it allows us to share our message and engage with professionals about our services to a much wider and more varied audience.
The Beauty of Collaboration
In a further example of the beauty of collaboration, to support one of the adults at the Tow Law job club, funded by SCS, we used the Household Fund from the Co Durham Community Foundation to buy an attendee a bike, a helmet, and high viz jacket. What this fund has enabled us to do, is not only advise people about work, but to literally give them the means of getting employment by providing them with the transport they need and can rely on.
In a shared post on Facebook, the Co Durham Community Foundation state; ‘Schemes like this one change lives today and enrich the for tomorrow. Breaking down the barrier of a commuting opens up more choice when it comes to job hunting, gives people more freedom and independence,’
Working Together
The general feeling in the Northeast is that 40 years ago in 1983, things were pretty desperate, but there is a new sense of desperation, today. One thing that I have learnt is that working together is ultimately, more efficient, more effective and most heart-warming.

Consett Heritage Project / July 17th, 2024
Consett Steelworks - Children's Research & Community Project | Building Self-Belief CIO
During the summer term of 2024, the children of Moorside Primary School in Consett, County Durham, participated in a project delivered by Building Self-Belief CIO, supported by the National Lottery Heritage Fund and the County Durham Community Foundation. This initiative aimed to bring the Consett community together around their shared industrial heritage. The children developed skills in creative writing, poetry, art, photography, communication, and historical research.

Consett Heritage Project / February 9th, 2024
My Dream for Consett
Ray Lonsdale’s statue of Tommy, at Seaham had a profound effect on me. Tommy, or using it’s real title of “One Minute Past Eleven” depicts a weary First World War soldier slumped and gazing ahead. Tommy represents how many troops felt when the war ended – we had ‘won’, but at what cost?

Youth Social Action / July 2nd, 2025
Benfieldside Community Garden / July 2nd, 2025
Benfieldside Communty Garden's Early July Update
Here is Building Self-Belief's .July update about the work at Benfieldside Community Garden. The areas where the paths will be have been scraped out - and next week the 2000 blocks will be laid to edge the path... Take a look at the work so far!